Comments on: Missed Opportunities http://www.thenappycat.com/2009/culture/missed-opportunities/ Politics. Music. Life. And the pursuit of fractal integrity. Wed, 02 Jun 2010 13:19:27 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Michael http://www.thenappycat.com/2009/culture/missed-opportunities/comment-page-1/#comment-301 Michael Wed, 15 Jul 2009 23:53:53 +0000 http://www.thenappycat.com/?p=1559#comment-301 Thanks, I had done as you suggest in recent history, but had not with one particular person. As I said, I'm hoping to gauge what people are feeling out there. It seems in the end, my own intuitions are right. You'll get to read about it in the book I'll be completing within the next year or two. Thanks, I had done as you suggest in recent history, but had not with one particular person.

As I said, I’m hoping to gauge what people are feeling out there. It seems in the end, my own intuitions are right. You’ll get to read about it in the book I’ll be completing within the next year or two.

]]> By: Monet's Lilacs http://www.thenappycat.com/2009/culture/missed-opportunities/comment-page-1/#comment-297 Monet's Lilacs Fri, 03 Jul 2009 03:20:13 +0000 http://www.thenappycat.com/?p=1559#comment-297 Sorry Michael, no love songs here. My story involves sushi & risking it to speak honestly to the other person. That's all I'll share. Besides, its not about what someone else did to win their love. Its about taking control of your life & being brave. Its too easy to go with what is comfortable & non threatening. If you are too cautious & not willing to risk yourself & share your interest or feelings for someone- you'll never know how the other person feels. So, take the chance, say something, it won't kill you. Cliched- perhaps, but if your current approach is not working for you, try something different. Ask her out to coffee,or something else simple. When you develop the confidence to just be yourself & be comfortable in who you are- it shows, and that's attractive. Sorry Michael, no love songs here. My story involves sushi & risking it to speak honestly to the other person. That’s all I’ll share. Besides, its not about what someone else did to win their love. Its about taking control of your life & being brave. Its too easy to go with what is comfortable & non threatening. If you are too cautious & not willing to risk yourself & share your interest or feelings for someone- you’ll never know how the other person feels. So, take the chance, say something, it won’t kill you. Cliched- perhaps, but if your current approach is not working for you, try something different. Ask her out to coffee,or something else simple. When you develop the confidence to just be yourself & be comfortable in who you are- it shows, and that’s attractive.

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